Week One
Name the Pattern
Complete the LOVE Pattern Quiz and explore how your primary pattern may be influencing your choices, expectations and reactions.
- Pattern awareness
- Guided reflection
- Relationship history
- Recognizing recurring responses
The Inaugural Circle
Becoming Her:The LOVE Pattern Intensive
A four week experience for women ready to understand their relationship patterns, replace LOVE Lies with God’s Truth and begin walking differently.
- Beginning Early September 2026
- Four Weeks
- Intimate Group Experience
- $399 Inaugural Enrollment
A faith centered educational and group coaching experience created for reflection, growth and practical transformation.
You can recognize the pattern and still struggle to change it.
Perhaps you have promised yourself that the next relationship would be different.
You would notice the warning signs sooner. Speak up more clearly. Stop investing in potential. Stop confusing intensity with connection. Stop sacrificing peace to keep a relationship intact.
And yet, familiar patterns have a way of returning in unfamiliar faces.
The problem is not that you are foolish, broken or incapable of LOVE. Lasting change requires more than recognizing what happened. It requires understanding what has been shaping your choices and learning how to walk differently.
Awareness names the pattern.
Truth begins the transformation.
Truth begins the transformation.
The Transformation
From pattern awareness to walking differently in God’s LOVE.
During our four weeks together, you will move beyond simply identifying what keeps happening. You will examine the LOVE Lies influencing your relationship decisions, replace them with God’s Truth and create a practical plan for healthier choices, boundaries and relationships.
- 01
Recognize
Identify the recurring patterns influencing your relationship choices.
- 02
Reveal
Bring the beliefs, fears and LOVE Lies beneath those patterns into the light.
- 03
Replace
Reframe those lies through God's Truth, healthier discernment and a renewed understanding of LOVE.
- 04
Respond Differently
Develop practical boundaries, conversations, rhythms and next steps that reflect who you are becoming.
The Four Week Experience
Four weeks. One honest look at what has been shaping your LOVE life.
Week Two
Expose the LOVE Lies
Identify the beliefs you have accepted about LOVE, identity, worth, relationships and what you should tolerate.
- The LOVE Lies worksheet
- Replacing lies with God's Truth
- Separating hope from evidence
- Recognizing self abandonment and overextension
Week Three
Bring It Into the Light
Apply what you are learning to real situations, conversations, behaviors and decisions.
- The Pattern in Practice
- Correction tools for use in the moment
- Healthy communication
- Discernment without shame or labeling
Week Four
Walk Differently
Create a practical LOVE Transformation Plan for the next 30 to 90 days.
- New boundaries
- New rhythms
- One necessary conversation
- Support and accountability
- A personal plan for moving forward
What Is Included
You will not leave with insight alone.
- Four weekly live teaching and group coaching sessions
- Guided discussion and facilitated reflection
- The LOVE Pattern Quiz and archetype discussion
- Four weeks of practical worksheets and exercises
- Scripture centered truth and identity reframing
- Weekly reflection assignments
- Group accountability and encouragement
- Session replays
- A practical 30 to 90 day LOVE Transformation Plan
This experience is intentionally intimate so women have space to reflect honestly, ask meaningful questions and apply what they are learning to real life.
Who This Is For
This circle may be for you if…
- You keep experiencing similar relationship patterns and want to understand why.
- You recognize the pattern but still struggle to change it.
- You have stayed too long because you believed in someone's potential.
- You avoid difficult conversations to preserve temporary peace.
- You have mistaken emotional intensity for meaningful connection.
- You have become so guarded that healthy vulnerability feels unsafe.
- You know what you need to do but need support following through.
- You want practical, biblically grounded tools without shame, labels or diagnosis.
- You are ready to take responsibility for your healing and your next steps.
You do not need to arrive with everything figured out. You only need to be willing to tell yourself the truth and become available for something different.
You Are Being Invited to Help Build Something Meaningful
Why an Inaugural Circle?
This first circle is more than the launch of a program. It is the beginning of a carefully guided experience designed to help women move from awareness into practical transformation.
As an inaugural participant, you will receive the complete four week experience while also helping shape its future through thoughtful feedback and reflection.
This is not an unfinished program. It is an intimate first circle with greater access, honest conversation and the opportunity to help strengthen the experience for the women who will come after you.
Your transformation matters.
Your voice can also help serve the next woman.
Your voice can also help serve the next woman.
Facilitator
Meet Amanda Chivers
Amanda Chivers is the author of Daddy Issues and the founder of Daddy Issues Group, a faith centered heart transformation movement helping women recognize unhealthy LOVE patterns, strengthen their relationship with God and begin walking in the identity of women who are loved, chosen and seen.
Amanda does not approach this work as a clinician diagnosing women or their relationships. She approaches it as a woman who has lived the questions, confronted her own patterns and felt called to create honest spaces where other women can encounter truth without shame.
Through compassionate teaching, guided reflection and practical application, Amanda helps women connect what they know spiritually with how they choose, respond and live relationally.
“This is not about blaming the men in our stories. It is about understanding what has shaped us and becoming women who can recognize and receive healthy LOVE.”
Founding Enrollment
Join the Inaugural Circle
$399
Your enrollment includes the complete four week LOVE Pattern Intensive, teaching and facilitation, program materials and administrative costs.
- Four live weekly sessions
- Guided group coaching and reflection
- Program worksheets and materials
- Session replays
- Weekly assignments and accountability
- Your personal LOVE Transformation Plan
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Frequently Asked Questions
Answers before you enroll.
The four week experience is scheduled to begin in early September 2026. Final session dates and participation details will be shared with enrolled members before the program begins.
Yes. The Intensive includes weekly live teaching, facilitated discussion and group coaching. Replays will also be provided.
No. Becoming Her: The LOVE Pattern Intensive is a faith centered educational and group coaching experience. It is not therapy, counseling, medical treatment, legal advice, diagnosis or crisis intervention.
No. The experience is designed for women who want to understand recurring patterns in past, present or potential relationships.
Recognizing your pattern is the beginning. It is not the entire transformation. The Intensive helps you examine the beliefs beneath the pattern, apply truth to real situations and create a practical plan for responding differently.
No. Reading Daddy Issues may provide helpful context, but it is not required to participate.
After enrollment, you will receive program details, participation instructions and next steps before the Intensive begins.
You have recognized enough patterns.
Now it is time to walk differently.
You are not being asked to become someone else.
You are being invited to become more deeply rooted in who God created you to be. Clearer in truth. Stronger in discernment. Increasingly able to recognize and receive healthy LOVE.
Discover your pattern. Heal your heart. Receive God’s LOVE.